I have just finished watching Taboo on National Geographic Channel. It was about dealing with the death, as in the rituals involved during the funeral according to various religions and beliefs. I found this topic rather intriguing.
Being a taosit/buddhist myself, (I’m still confused of whether I am a Taoist or a Buddhist) funeral rituals may be elaborate and there are so many rules which we have to abide. The elders would know very well about the pantang larangs / rules involved, but most of the youngsters now wouldn’t know anything and thus, we just follow and never question why this or that should be done.
Boy : Ah Ma, how come we cannot do this, this, this and this during the funeral? And why must we do this?
Ah Ma: Aiyo, don’t ask so much questions la. Just follow only.
You know what, I think the elders do not even know why they are performing the steps involved during certain rituals.
According many religions, the body acts as a vessel in which the soul stays in until death. The body of the deceased should be given utmost respect. Most of the time, people do not want the body of their relatives to undergo autopsy as they have the thought that autopsy may disfigure the body of the person and also the soul.
Well, at least according to my religion or the thoughts of my relatives, the body should be in a perfect condition with all the parts of the body intact during the funeral. Although questions may surface on how the person has passed away, they would not want an autopsy to be done and prefer to speculate on the reason of death.
Being a man of science myself, I came to understand that we are what we are because of the tiny functions and minor reactions which occur in the billions of cells in our body. I would not say that souls exist but I would definitely not say that souls do not exist. This issue is brought down as beliefs and there is no way of proving it wrong or right.
Anyway, the idea of this post is whether or not autopsy should be performed. In simpler terms, autopsy involves cutting the corpse open to find out the reason behind the death. The body will definitely be disfigured but I believe the person performing the autopsy would do what he or she can to ensure that the body is in the best condition possible before preparing it for funeral.
This is also closely related to organ donation. To me, organ donation is a noble thing to do. Anyway, we would not need our organs when we are dead. Our hearts, livers, lungs, kidneys and eyes would rot and go to waste anyway. Wouldn’t it be better to donate them? Well, my parents, along with many other parents out there disagree. They have the thought that our body should be in perfect condition during the funeral. I still can’t convince them to give up that thought.
I know it is a scary thought of having your body to be cut opened when you are dead but there is a purpose behind it. But well, it all comes down to beliefs.
Would you abide by the funeral rituals or go on with autopsy or organ donation?